Saturday, March 13, 2010

the Unconditional LOVE



Hi,


 today i would like to narrate to u a small story which was narrated by one fine friend  of mine Mr. Saravanan while talking about the temperaments of human mind...am not going to say here something about psychology but the pure love and affection on whose support the whole human race is still existing.....the story goes on in his own words......

Some time ago, a friend of mine punished his 4 year old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper.


Money was tight and he became infuriated when the small child tried to decorate a box to put under the tree.

Nevertheless the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said "This is for you Daddy. "

He was embarrassed by his earlier over reaction... He opened the box and his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.

Then he yelled at her:
"DON'T YOU KNOW when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside of it???"

The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said,

Oh Daddy it's not empty, I blew kisses into the box, all for you Daddy.

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged her for forgiveness. My friend told me that he kept that gold box near his bed for years.

Whenever he was discouraged he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.
 

In a very real sense each of us has been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses.

There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.
   
  Now  u might reasonably wonder what connection does this story have in regard to the relation between the two great countries. Here i would like to insist that the humanity relies solely upon the emotional attachments among the people, for the people.  Whatever caste, creed the human race may be, the love and affection which exists within every individual is the one which is maintaining the relations amongst human beings.  And since the country is made up of people, better ,the people in their self, the better will be the country in its perspective.  As every lover might say , "Only those love stories are remembered which have ended in tragedy".

   So, .....dont forget to post ur comments  , coz its the love.......

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

the story of PRAHLAD IN the CHINESE way



hi,



    this time i am here to provide u with one another legendary story which have been filled with the various tensing situations which are very much prevalent in the Indian mythological stories.   
   
     The upcoming story has the wide similarities in its situations with the story of Prince Prahlad (the son of Demon king Hiranyakashyp) who was the ardent devotee of Lord Vishnu.   The prince underwent a lot of struggle and trauma before achieving his aim of salvation. In this story's Chinese equivalent i believe i could bring infront of you is the story of Miao Shan who is known to be Very Merciful and Very Compassionate P’u-sa, Saviour of the Afflicted, Miraculous and Always Helpful Protectress of Mortals. On her lofty precious lotus-flower throne, she is considered as the Sovereign of the Southern Seas and of P’u T’o Isle.   The only main difference which I found was that the devotee Prahlad being a Prince and devotee Miao Shan being a Princess.

  The chinese legend goes in this fashion ;
     
   In the kingdom of Hsing Lin, the King , title of his reign as Miao Chuang,  was anxiously expecting day by day the birth of an heir, was informed one morning that a daughter had been born to him. She was named Miao Ch’ing. A year went by, and another daughter was born. This one was named Miao Yin. When, at the end of the third year, another daughter was born, the King, beside himself with rage, called his Grand Minister Chao Chên and, all disconsolate, said to him, “I am past fifty, and have no male child to succeed me on the throne. My dynasty will therefore become extinct. Of what use have been all my labours and all my victories?” Chao Chen tried to console him, saying, “Heaven has granted you three daughters: no human power can change this divine decree. When these princesses have grown up, we will choose three sons-in-law for your Majesty, and you can elect your successor from among them. Who will dare to dispute his right to the throne?” 

   The King named the third daughter Miao Shan. She became noted for her modesty and many other good qualities, and scrupulously observed all the tenets of the Buddhist doctrines. Virtuous living seemed, indeed, to be to her a second nature.

   After a few years while they were sitting in the garden a lady of the Court came to announce that the King had found sons-in-law to his liking for his two elder daughters. The wedding-feast was to be the very next day.  The husband chosen for Miao Ch’ing was a First Academician named Chao K’uei.  Miao Yin’s husband-elect was a military officer named Ho Fêng, whose personal name was Ch’ao Yang.  The marriage ceremonies were of a magnificent character. Festivity followed festivity; the newly-wed were duly installed in their palaces, and general happiness prevailed. 

    There now remained only Miao Shan. The King and Queen wished to find for her a man famous for knowledge and virtue, capable of ruling the kingdom, and worthy of being the successor to the throne. So the King called her and explained to her all his plans regarding her, and how all his hopes rested on her.

I do not wish to marry,” she conveyed to her father. “I wish to attain to perfection and to Buddhahood. Then I promise that I will not be ungrateful to you.”

“Wretch of a daughter,” cried the King in anger, “you think you can teach me, the head of the State and ruler of so great a people! Has anyone ever known a daughter of a king become a nun? Can a good woman be found in that class? Put aside all these mad ideas of a nunnery, and tell me at once if you will marry a First Academician or a Military First Graduate.”

   The girl answered, “who does not love the royal dignity?—what person who does not aspire to the happiness of marriage? However, I wish to become a nun. With respect to the riches and glory of this world, my heart is as cold as a dead cinder, and I feel a keen desire to make it ever purer and purer.”

    The King rose in fury, and wished to cast her out from his presence. Miao Shan, knowing she could not openly disobey his orders, took another course. “If you absolutely insist upon my marrying,” she said, “I will consent; only I must marry a physician.”

    “A physician!” growled the King. “Are men of good family and talents wanting in my kingdom? What an absurd idea, to want to marry a physician!”

    “My wish is,” said Miao Shan, “to heal humanity of all its ills; of cold, heat, lust, old age, and all infirmities. I wish to equalize all classes, putting rich and poor on the same footing, to have community of goods, without distinction of persons. If you will grant me my wish, I can still in this way become a Buddha, a Saviour of Mankind. There is no necessity to call in the diviners to choose an auspicious day. I am ready to be married now.” 

   At these words the King was mad with rage.  Without further ado he called Ho T’ao, who on that day was officer of the palace guard. When he had arrived and kneeled to receive the King’s commands, the latter said: “This wicked nun dishonours me. Take from her her Court robes, and drive her from my presence. Take her to the Queen’s garden, and let her perish there of cold: that will be one care less for my troubled heart.”
   
    Miao Shan fell on her face and thanked the King, and then went with the officer to the Queen’s garden, where she began to lead her retired hermit life, with the moon for companion and the wind for friend, content to see all obstacles overthrown on her way to Nirvāna, the highest state of spiritual bliss, and glad to exchange the pleasures of the palace for the sweetness of solitude.
   
    After futile attempts to dissuade her from her purpose by the Court ladies, her parents, and sisters, the King and Queen, Miao Shan in a haughty manner ordered them never again to come and torment her with their silly prattle. “I have found out,” she added, “that there is a well-known temple at Ju Chou in Lung-shu Hsien. This Buddhist temple is known as the Nunnery of the White Bird, Po-ch’iao Ch’an-ssŭ. In it five hundred nuns give themselves up to the study of the true doctrine and the way of perfection and sought her parents permission to retire thither.
   
    The King gave his permission, but sent strict orders to the nunnery, instructing the nuns to do all in their power to dissuade the Princess when she arrived from carrying out her intention to remain.
     
     This Nunnery of the White Bird had been built by Huang Ti, and the five hundred nuns who lived in it had as Superior a lady named I Yu, who was remarkable for her virtue. On receipt of the royal mandate, she had summoned Chêng Chêng-ch’ang, the choir-mistress, and informed her that Princess Miao Shan, owing to a disagreement with her father, would shortly arrive at the temple. She requested her to receive the visitor courteously, but at the same time to do all she could to dissuade her from adopting the life of a nun. 

    Having given these instructions, the Superior, accompanied by two novices, went to meet Miao Shan at the gate of the temple. On her arrival they saluted her. The Princess returned the salute, but said: “I have just left the world in order to place myself under your orders: why do you come and salute me on my arrival? I beg you to be so good as to take me into the temple, in order that I may pay my respects to the Buddha.” I Yu led her into the principal hall, and instructed the nuns to light incense-sticks, ring the bells, and beat the drums. 

     The visit to the temple finished, she went into the preaching-hall, where she greeted her instructresses. The latter obeyed the King’s command and endeavoured to persuade the Princess to return to her home, but, as none of their arguments had any effect, it was at length decided to give her a trial, and to put her in charge of the kitchen, where she could prepare the food for the nunnery, and generally be at the service of all. If she did not give satisfaction they could dismiss her.

      Miao Shan joyfully agreed, and proceeded to make her humble submission to the Buddha. She knelt before Ju Lai, and made offering to him, praying as follows: “Great Buddha, full of goodness and mercy, your humble servant wishes to leave the world. Grant that I may never yield to the temptations which will be sent to try my faith.” Miao Shan further promised to observe all the regulations of the nunnery and to obey the superiors.

      This generous self-sacrifice touched the heart of Yü Huang, the Master of Heaven, who summoned the Spirit of the North Star and instructed him as follow “Miao Shan, the third daughter of King Miao Chuang, has renounced the world in order to devote herself to the attainment of perfection. Her father has consigned her to the Nunnery of the White Bird. She has undertaken without grumbling the burden of all the work in the nunnery. If she is left without help, who is there who will be willing to adopt the virtuous life? Do you go quickly and order the Three Agents, the Gods of the Five Sacred Peaks, the Eight Ministers of the Heavenly Dragon, Ch’ieh Lan, and the t’u-ti to send her help at once. Tell the Sea-dragon to dig her a well near the kitchen, a tiger to bring her firewood, birds to collect vegetables for the inmates of the nunnery, and all the spirits of Heaven to help her in her duties, that she may give herself up without disturbance to the pursuit of perfection. See that my commands are promptly obeyed.” The Spirit of the North Star complied without delay. 

     Seeing all these gods arrive to help the novice, the Superior, I Yu, held consultation with the choir-mistress, saying: “We assigned to the Princess the burdensome work of the kitchen because she refused to return to the world; but since she has entered on her duties the gods of the eight caves of Heaven have come to offer her fruit, Ch’ieh Lan sweeps the kitchen, the dragon has dug a well, the God of the Hearth and the tiger bring her fuel, birds collect vegetables for her, the nunnery bell every evening at dusk booms of itself, as if struck by some mysterious hand. Obviously miracles are being performed. Hasten and fetch the King, and beg his Majesty to recall his daughter.” 
      
     Chêng Chêng-ch’ang informed the King of all that had taken place. The King called Hu Pi-li, the chief of the guard, and ordered him to go to the sub-prefecture of Lung-shu Hsien at the head of an army corps of 5000 infantry and cavalry. He was to surround the Nunnery of the White Bird and burn it to the ground, together with the nuns. When he reached the place the commander surrounded the nunnery with his soldiers, and set fire to it. 
     The five hundred doomed nuns invoked the aid of Heaven and earth, and then, addressing Miao Shan, said: “It is you who have brought upon us this terrible disaster.”
“It is true,” said Miao Shan. “I alone am the cause of your destruction.” She then knelt down and prayed to Heaven: “Great Sovereign of the Universe, your servant is the daughter of King Miao Chuang; You in former times betook yourself to the snowy mountains to attain perfection; I came here with the same object. Will you not save us from this fiery destruction?”

    Her prayer ended, Miao Shan took a bamboo hairpin from her hair, pricked the roof of her mouth with it, and spat the flowing blood toward Heaven. Immediately great clouds gathered in all parts of the sky and sent down inundating showers, which put out the fire that threatened the nunnery. The nuns threw themselves on their knees and thanked her effusively for having saved their lives.

     Hu Pi-li retired, and went in haste to inform the King of this extraordinary occurrence. The King, enraged, ordered him to go back at once, bring his daughter in chains, and behead her on the spot.

     But the Queen, who had heard of this new plot, begged the King to grant her daughter a last chance. “If you will give permission,” she said, “I will have a magnificent pavilion built at the side of the road where Miao Shan will pass in chains on the way to her execution, and will go there with our two other daughters and our sons-in-law. As she passes we will have music, songs, feasting, everything likely to impress her and make her contrast our luxurious life with her miserable plight. This will surely bring her to repentance” and this was agreed by the King too.

     Nevertheless, when the time came, Miao Shan showed nothing but disdain for all this worldly show, and to all advances replied only: “I love not these pompous vanities; I swear that I prefer death to the so-called joys of this world.” She was then led to the place of execution. All the Court was present. Sacrifices were made to her as to one already dead. A Grand Minister pronounced the sacrificial oration.

     In the midst of all this the Queen appeared, and ordered the officials to return to their posts, that she might once more exhort her daughter to repent. But Miao Shan only listened in silence with downcast eyes.The King felt great repugnance to shedding his daughter’s blood, and ordered her to be imprisoned in the palace, in order that he might make a last effort to save her. “I am the King,” he said; “my orders cannot be lightly set aside. Disobedience to them involves punishment, and in spite of my paternal love for you, if you persist in your present attitude, you will be executed to-morrow in front of the palace gate.” 

     The t’u-ti, hearing the King’s verdict, went with all speed to Yü Huang,( the Master of Heaven) and reported to him the sentence which had been pronounced against Miao Shan. Yü Huang exclaimed: “Save Buddha, there is none in the west so noble as this Princess. To-morrow, at the appointed hour, go to the scene of execution, break the swords, and splinter the lances they will use to kill her. See that she suffers no pain. At the moment of her death transform yourself into a tiger, and bring her body to the pine-wood. Having deposited it in a safe place, put a magic pill in her mouth to arrest decay. Her triumphant soul on its return from the lower regions must find it in a perfect state of preservation in order to be able to re-enter it and animate it afresh. After that, she must betake herself to Hsiang Shan on P’u T’o Island, where she will reach the highest state of perfection.”


    On the day appointed, Commander Hu Pi-li led the condemned Princess to the place of execution. A body of troops had been stationed there to maintain order. The t’u-ti was in attendance at the palace gates. Miao Shan was radiant with joy. “To-day,” she said, “I leave the world for a better life. Hasten to take my life, but beware of mutilating my body.

     The King’s warrant arrived, and suddenly the sky became overcast and darkness fell upon the earth. A bright light surrounded Miao Shan, and when the sword of the executioner fell upon the neck of the victim it was broken in two. Then they thrust at her with a spear, but the weapon fell to pieces. After that the King ordered that she be strangled with a silken cord. A few moments later a tiger leapt into the execution ground, dispersed the executioners, put the inanimate body of Miao Shan on his back, and disappeared into the pine-forest. Hu Pi-li rushed to the palace, recounted to the King full details of all that had occurred, and received a reward of two ingots of gold. 
    
    The story further goes on to say that Miao Shan gave her own eyes and hands for the treatment of her father, who was punished by the "god of the gods "for his wrongdoings with a disease which could have been cured only by Miao ShanYü Huang ( the god of the gods) impressed upon her heartfelt affection and sacrifices towards her father and other people who was bad to her , gave her title of "Very Merciful and Very Compassionate P’u-sa, Saviour of the Afflicted, Miraculous and Always Helpful Protectress of Mortals". On her lofty precious lotus-flower throne, she will be the Sovereign of the Southern Seas and of P’u T’o Isle.
     
     And now the morale part ---In both Hindu mythology and this version of Chinese Mythology, the story revolves around the attainment of salvation.  The words may differ as attainment of "Nirvana" or attainment of "Moksha".  Both aiming at leaving the life on the earth and be in the hands of the Divine Lord, free from births and rebirths.   Whatever be the aim, one thing is for sure, both these cultures always wanted people to be good and helpful, then where from this fear and anxiety has come amongst the people of these great countries....?
   Expecting ur comments and suggestions till the next post.......

          





Wednesday, February 24, 2010

the SOUL of the GREAT BELL

"She hath spoken, and her words still resound in his ears"

HAO KHIEOU TCHOUAN


hi friends,
  Dont get annoyed by seeing that even I have started using some literary stand, but I have to say that I didn't get any other better quote than this one, to place infront of you the story which I read I don't remember from where ( from internet most probably).  I liked the story very much, so thought of conveying the same to u friends tooo..

  this is the story of the Great bell in the  "Ta Chung sz" ( its in  Peking) written by "Yu Pao Tchen

   Nearly ..... hundred years ago ( I hope that's the style any story should begin), in the Court of the Son of Heaven ( that's vat they call their emperor) Yong Lo of the Ming Dynasty , there was an official named Kouan Yu (who is one of the main characters in our story).

   The emperor commanded Kouan yu that he should have a bell made of such size that, the sound of bell should be heard even from a distance of 100 li (now one li=one third of a mile).  He further ordered that the voice of the bell should be strengthened with brass, deepened with gold and sweetened with silver, and that the face and the great lips of it should be graven with blessed sayings from the sacred books, and that it should be suspended in the centre of the Imperial Capital, to sound through all the many coloured ways of the city of Pe king.
   
  To make the order come true, Kouan Yu assembled the master moulders and the renowned bell smiths of the empire, and all men of great repute and cunning in foundry work.  They measured the materials for the allow and treated them skillfully, and prepared the moulds, the fire, the instruments, and the monstrous melting pot for fusing the metal.  They strived hard neglecting their sleep and all the comforts of life, toiling both night and day in obedience to Kouan Yu.
   
  But when the metal had been cast , and the earthen mould separated from the glowing casting, it was discovered that, despite their great labour and ceaseless care, the result was bad.  The metals had rebelled one against the other;- the gold had scorned alliance with the brass, the silver would not mingle with the molten iron.  Therefore the moulds had to be once again prepared, and the fires rekindled, and the metal remelted, and the all the work was repeated to the utter dismay of the emperor.  But the emperor did say nothing but gave them a further chance.

  Second time the bell was cast and the result was even worse.   Still the metals obstinately refused to blend one with the other, and there was no uniformity in the bell and the sides of it were cracked and fissured, and the lips of it were slagged and split due to which all the labor had to be repeated even a third time to the great dismay of Kouan Yu.

   When the emperor heard these things, he was angrier than before and sent his messenger to Kouan Yu with a letter, written upon lemon colored silk, and sealed with the seal of the Dragon, containing these words;-
    "From the mighty Yong Lo, the sublime Tait Sung, the Celestial and August, whose reign is called "Ming" - to Kouan Yu the Fuh Yin:-

      Twice thou hast betrayed the trust we have deigned graciously to place in thee, if thou fail a third time in fulfilling our Command, thy head shall be severed from thy neck.  Tremble and obey."

   Now, Kouan Yu had a daughter of dazzling loveliness (our story's heroine), whose name KoNgai was ever in the mouths of poets, and whose heart was even more beautiful than her face.  KoNgai loved her father with such love that she had refused to marry for the fear of moving away from her father.  When she saw the awful yellow missive, sealed with the Dragon Seal, she fainted away with fear for her fathers sake.  And when her senses and her strength returned to her, she could not rest or sleep for thinking of her fathers danger, until she secretly sold some of her jewels, and with the money so obtained had hastened to an astrologer, and paid him a great price to advise her by what means her father might be saved from the peril impending over him.  So the astrologer made observations of the heavens,and marked the aspect of the silver stream ( which we call the Milky way) and examined the signs of the Zodiac,- the Huang Tao (Yellow Road) and consulted the table of the five Hin (Principles of the Universe),and the mystical books of Alchemists.   And after a long silence, he replied to her "Gold and Brass will never meet in Wedlock , Silver and Iron will never embrace, until the flesh oa a maidn be melted in the crucible, until the blood of a virgin be mixed with the metals in their fusion."  Listening this KoNgai returned home with sorrowful heart, but she kept secret all that she had heard, and told none .

    Atlast came the awful day when the third and last effort to cast the great bell was to be made, and KoNgai ,  together with her waiting woman, accompanied her father to the foundry and they took their places upon a platform overlooking the toiling of the moulders and the lava of liquified metal.  All the workmen wrought their tasks in silence, there was no sound heard, but the muttering of the fires.  And the muttering deepened into a roar like the roar of typhoons approaching, and the blod red lake of metal slowly brightened like the vermilion of a sunrise, and the vermilion was transmitted into a radiant glow of gold, and the gold whitened blindingly, like the silver face of a full moon.  Then the workers ceased to feed the raving flames, and all fixed their eyes upon the eyes of kouan Yu and Kouan Yu prepared to give the signal to cast.


    But as soon as he lifted his finger, a cry caused him to turn his head, and all heard the voice of KoNgai sounding sharply sweet as a birds song above the great thunder of the fires;- "For thy sake, o my Father!"  and even as she cried, she leaped into the white flood of metal; and the lava of the furnace roared to receive her, and spattered the monstrous flakes of flame to the roof, and burst over the verge of the earthen crater, and cast up a whirling fountain of many coloured fires, and subsided quakingly, with lightenings and with thunders and with mutterings.

    Then the father of KoNgai, wild with his grief, would have leaped in after her, but soldiers held hi back and kept firm grasp upon him until he had fainted away and they could take him home.  And the serving woman of KoNgai dizzy and speechless for pain, stood before the furnace, still holding in her hands a shoe, a tiny, dainty shoe, with embroidery of pearls and flowers,- the shoe of her beautiful mistress that was.  for she had sought to grasp KoNgai by the foot as she leaped, but had only been able t clutch the shoe, and the pretty shoe came off in her hand, and she continued to stare at it like one gone mad.
   But inspite of all these things the command of the Emperor had to be obeyed, and the work of the moulders to be finished, hopeless as the result might be.  Yet the glow of the metal seemed purer and whiter than before, and there was no sign of the beautiful body that had been entombed therein.  So the ponderous casting was made, and lo! when the metal had become cool, it was found that the bell was beautiful to look upon, and perfect in form, and wonderful in colour, above all other bells.  Nor was there any trace found of the body of KoNgai, for it had been totally absorbed by the precious alloy, and blended with the well blended brass and gold, with the inter mingling of the silver and the iron.  And when they sounded the bell, its tones were found to be deeper and mellower and mightier than the tones of any other bell, reaching even beyond the distance of hundred li, like a pealing of summer thunder, and yet also like some vast voice uttering a name, a woman's name, - the name of KoNgai.
    
   till date, between each and mighty stroke there is a long low moaning heard, and ever the moaning ends with a sound of sobbing and complaining, as though a weeping woman should murmur "hiai".  And  even today, when the people hear that great golden moan they keep silence,  but  when the sharp, sweet shuddering comes in the air, and the sobbing of "Hiai", all the Chinese mothers in and around the ways of Pe-king whisper to their little ones;
"Listen! that is  KoNgai crying for her shoe!
   that is  KoNgai calling for her shoe!   (the mothers way of keeping the young ones silent) ...

   Now reading all through this story, you might wonder what connection does it have with an indian mind...? then i must say to you that, the affection of  KoNgai towards her father is the heart warming point, which as the indian epics says "Mata, Pita, Guru, Daivam" which means in the whole world any individual should pay heed and respect at first to his/her "Mother" then "Father", then "Teacher" and then to  "God".  
   In this story thought it might sound fictious, it does have the affection and morale which every indian heart is made up of, though at some times it resides hidden in their hearts, without any exposure.
    When the  hi story (though from china), shows you the way to live the life, which is quite common to the tradition and culture which every indian is supposed to follow,
  "Where does the question of enemity rise......?(between our two countries)...


bye for now till we meet again.....(Dont forget to post your comments though anonymously)




Sunday, February 21, 2010

Chinese New year in Indian Way

  Hey, don't get carried away by the title, I am not going to tell you of some celebrations done by me or my friends on the ocassion of Chinese New Year, but would definitely would like to make u aware of the facts which are common to the common mans customs and traditions.
  In china, the New year is celebrated on the First day of the first month of the Lunar Calendar, some may argue that they have seen Chinese celebrating the New year which falls on Jan 01 every year.  I won't counter it becoz the modern trends have created celebration the new year as per Gregorian Calendar not only in China but in every major part of the world, thanx to the Colonial Rules.
   The preparation of ''LAPAZHOU" which is a primary eatable during the celebration of Chinese New year is the most delicious one (atleast that's what I heard from my few friends who have been to China). You might wonder what this "Lapazhou" is ?  In local terms we could say it as something like '"gruel" which is sweet and delicious, it is similar to "PONGAL" of "Tamil nadu" in India or u can even say it as just the same as that of a "PAYASAM" in Kerala of India (both prepared in auspicious occassions).  Feeling watery in mouth, control.......
   the most important part which as the time had passed and we have forgotten (atleast many of the Malayalees in india have forgotten) is the celebrating style of New year.
    Here I would like to mention the style of New Year celebration of kerala (The MALAYALAM NEW YEAR) , which is commonly known as THE "VISHU".  Pl don't ask me the meaning of "Vishu", which i am afraid that i will not be able to answer to ur satisfaction. But in the terms by which i came across it, it is the most interesting festival of Kerala.

    On the day prior to vishu, the eldest female family member arranges the things which have to be seen as the "VISHU KKANI".  Which includes all the fruits, vegetables and yieldings which they either want for the following year to be grown in their home or for conveying thanx to the lord almighty for providing them which all those yieldings.  Whatever be the matter, it also consists of good sweets, of which "ADA" plays the prominent role.  "ADA" is made just like momos (The Chinese Speciality which every youngster residing in Chanakyapuri in Delhi might be aware of.  The only difference is Momos may consist of meat and is salty and round or oval in shape.  But the "ADA" is flat folded covered in "banana leaf" with servings of  jaggery and coconut, prepared in steam.   The breakfast may consists of "ADA" which you will have to take according to ur capacity,but my experience says that u wont be able to take more than three "ADA"s which are having gooood shape.  "Along with this u may have banana (generally NENTHRA PAZHAM), that too steamed (still remember MOMOS). Since every thing is sweet u may get little bit......, so the home arranges the PAPAD which is little bit salty and goes well to support the appetite.
     Oh, sorry, sorry, just thinking of the eatables, i got diverted.  I am not a person of huge appetite ( though some of my friends may say so, don't listen to them).
     One  of the main thing which the celebrations of both the countries carries along with it is the, bursting of crackers on the occassion of New Year.
     On the day of Vishu, after seeing the "VISHU KKANI" childrens and the members of the family receives blessings from their elders.  The most interesting part which I like of vishu is just in this process  of seeking blessings. EVERY ELDER WILL HAVE TO PRODUCE MONEY TO HIS YOUNGSTER WHOEVER IT IS ALONG WITH THE BLESSINGS, WOW, think of the situation when u r the youngest and no of persons in the family is ..........  So I always waited for this day every year.  Because on this day, all the members of the family wherever they are, assembles in their ancestral home, and celebrates the new year together.  (Hey, ...if any Malayalee reading this or even a non malayali reading this , u can just take advantage of this day from your elders, because, as I said, they will have to shower their blessings along with money to u on this auspicious day, even if they are just known to u...(got it)....ha  ha...
      There is one another important aspect in the celebration of New Year in both the countries.   In both the cases, there is BURSTING OF CRACKERS involved.  In China, it is believed that bursting of crackers will keep the bad spirits and ghosts away from home, so that happiness and harmony is maintained at home.   So a lot of firecrackers on the day.   And that's a plus point why we should not celebrate the Malayalam New Year or even in that case a Chinese New Year, because in both cases on the day of new year bursting of fire crackers are inevitable.  I like the latest flower fire works which are easily available in the market, might be under the influence of Chinese New Year.
    What ever the case might be, the only thing which I haven't been able to understand even today is....:-  Both the New Years are celebrated based upon the Lunar Calendar i.e 1st day of the 1st month of the Lunar calendar,  but in China the New year generally falls on the last ten days of January  and first ten days of February, whereas the Malayalam New Year i.e VISHU falls generally in the month of April 1st and 2nd weeks.  Which I hope, any of the educated or knowledgeable person, who may come across this post, may explain to me...
    
  And now, the morale part:---(Which I should not avoid)----Since being in such large distances, both the countries have same customs and traditions, why do we people still think each other as one seeking to take advantage of the other?  Is it not possible that, one day we should celebrate the New Years together and seek blessings from each other......
    
  Dont hesitate to provide me with your valuable comments...expecting to meet you in the next post very soon.....